And so we wait.
Fraser is off all sedation so is officially in a ‘coma’ (ie. no medical reason not to wake up). He apparently hasn’t quite slept enough as he’s yawned a few times. 🥱His hands are squeezing….not ‘on purpose’ (yet!) but I’m trying to find a place of being….pragmatically hopeful?
It gives me hope that he is getting reacquainted with his body on this side. It must be fairly jarring so we remind him it can happen slowly...and also WAKE UP!! Balance and patience. Ugh
The doctors just did their ‘rounds’ as they do each morning between 10 and ‘later’ (some as late as 2 pm) making it hard to leave until our assessment is done. The doctor is fairly patient with me as I make my presence known amongst the 6-8 doctors etc. standing outside the room talking about 'the patient' inside.
That patient, I remind them is Fraser. My husband, Connor and Caelin’s father and Loreen’s son. He is something to everybody who knows him. And that is why we gather as a team outside his room. I show them his photo and say, ‘this is the man who lies there’.
I asked about an Omega protocol for concussion patients and although curious he said it hasn’t been proven. He agreed to do a Vitamin C IV and again said it’s ‘just a huge push that hasn’t been proven’ but agreed there isn’t much downside. The doctor at least acts ‘curious’ to my inquisitiveness and I can only hope that even if it’s not for us that they will open themselves to other ideas than what they have been taught by a certain ideology. I told him he was in my favour again today…he said that made his day. So, we work together on this rollercoaster which the doctor has been on...but not me/us.
I am now looking forward to being home so we can utilize all the other healing modalities I have been blessed to be exposed to. Fraser’s going to LOVE it! 🥳🙌😁 Maybe some acupuncture; different IV therapies; physician patients of mine who specialize in brain trauma…all medicine in a different form.
In the meantime, my good friend (and someone I highly respect as a mentor) sent us an overnight express of an iterra wand. It uses Thz frequencies and between that and my Lifewave accupressure patches I am making do with what I can. I firmly believe in the power of intention….even when I forget it’s there. 😞
We are waiting for papers to be signed and sent and doctors and nurses and transport…I pray communication goes smoothly and we can come home together. 🙏
Stay warm…I hear it snowed in Calgary. Ew
You are the best advocate money could buy. You are a force of nature. You are asking the right things, pushing gently for other treatments,making the doctors aware he is needing some help. Yawning is awesome. His automatic functions of his brain are there! He is coming back!!! Now there are no sedatives,get the music party going in full swing. Even if it some of that country crap. Something he would reluctantly agree to get up and dance to. . He may respond to bag pipes! Watch those brain bleeds but full simulation about life out here and what waiting for him. All my love is pouring your way. Patience. Keep it up. Now you sleep too. And now…
Your continuous commitment to opening the avenues of support for Fraser is courageous and inspiring. I’m so glad to hear that some natural movements are returning even though still in a coma. That is actually very significant. Our prayers continue❤️
What a beautiful picture of the two of you! There will be many more to come. I hope you all make the journey home soon ❤ Colin and I will be at your beckon call when you arrive home. Thanks again for keeping us informed 🙏 ((HUGS))
Beautiful pic ❤️ my handsome cousin in his kilt and his gorgeous wife.Sending love from us all as we continue to hope and pray for this nightmare to end. 🏴
Stays positive ❤️ baby steps in path of healing as Fraser is returning. I am happy that doctors open to suggestions of patients family members.
May be the cold and snow ❄️ will jolt him out of his sleep 🙏🏽